Thursday, December 27, 2012

Happy Birthday Amara!!!



We are so happy to announce the birth of our daughter, Amara Meilee!  She was born Saturday, December 22, 2012 at 5:46 pm.  She weighed in at 7 lbs, 1.6 oz. and was 19 inches long.  She will definitely live up to her name-sake (eternal beauty) because she is absolutely gorgeous!!  (I may be a little biased though) 

Her birth was very quick (relatively speaking) and fairly uncomplicated.  I was supposed to go in for the induction at 7:30, but at a quarter to 6 that morning I received a call saying it had been delayed until 11:30.  Not a big deal, I got to sleep a little longer!  So we hung around the house until it was time to go, dropped the boys off at my friend Cathy’s house (Riley was so excited to spend the day with Tanner, Jackson and Ryder that he had his coat and shoes on for 2 full hours before it was time to go!!), and got to the hospital shortly before 11:30.  I was checked in and Pitocin was started around noon, and I knew then it would go fairly quick, I was already dilated to 4 cm.  Once the contractions picked up I was ready for the epidural (which I wanted before they broke my water since I remembered all too well how horrible that was with Riley’s birth) and got that around 3:30.  Then I was able to relax for a little bit to help move things along.  The Doctor came in and broke my water around 4:30, and things moved very quickly after that.  Within minutes of breaking my water I dilated to 8 cm (from 5 before they broke) and I was already feeling the pressure and urge to push.  Not long after that Amara started having troubles.  Her heart rate (previously consistent in the 130’s) kept dropping to the 60’s and 70’s with every contraction.  Diagnosis: she had her cord wrapped around her neck and the pressure was pinching it.  So the doctor had me up on my hands and knees to get her off the cord, and let me tell you, after having an epidural that is no easy feat!!  But it helped, so there I sat with my rear end up in the air while they tried to get me to dilate faster so she could be born.  After she stabilized a little more I was able to lay on my side to deliver.  I started pushing still at 8 cm., to help with dilating, and within minutes I was ready to deliver her.  And yep, her cord was around her neck, but we also discovered that she was holding onto it with her Hand!!  Silly girl!  But she started breathing and pinked up right away, so there were no issues.  She was here!!  We were so happy to have her there with us! 
Proud Papa!
7 lbs 1.6 oz
Official Footprints
Sleeping like a baby!
Not too happy about the first bath

We were able to relax that evening, and Cam went home to get a good night’s sleep while the boys stayed with Cathy.  He then took them the next morning to our neighbor, Lacey’s House for the day.  It was so wonderful to have friends so close to help us out.  We are truly blessed!!  The boys got to come to the hospital later that evening for dinner and to see Amara.  Jayce was instantly intrigued!!  He immediately went over to the bassinet and climbed up on a chair to peer in.  He wanted to see her, touch her, and talk to her immediately! 
Big Brother Jayce
Watching over little sissy
He is so intrigued!

Riley on the other hand, wasn’t so sure.  We had to nearly threaten him just to get him to stand next to the bassinet for a picture!  (Don’t worry he’s starting to come around now – faster than he did when Jayce was born)  He spent most of the time at the hospital coloring, playing on his etch-a-sketch, or eating snacks (all courtesy of his “Big Brother Bag” from Amara!!)  The boys also got T-shirts in their bag that say “Bodyguard for my new Sister”.  Thanks to Pinterest for that idea!! 
The forced picture
This is how he spent the majority of the visit
Playing Etch-a-sketch
New t-shirts
Bodyguard for My New Sister
Big Brother Bag
Mom and the Kiddos
Jayce's first time to hold Amara

We got to go home the next day, Christmas Eve.  And it was so wonderful to be home.  Amara had a cute little “Santa Girl” outfit from Jan to go home in, and even though it was a Newborn Size it was still huge on her tiny little body!   

 That evening was nice and laid back, we didn’t even go to church for our customary Christmas Eve Service.  And same for Christmas Day.  We have spent the last few days just enjoying her and admiring her!  Jayce is still such an involved big brother, wanting to hold her and touch her every chance he gets.  He climbs up the end of the changing table to entertain her while she’s getting changed or dressed, and he loves holding her toys up by her face for her to look at.    Riley is starting to come around, asking more questions and talking about her.  He even wanted to hold her last night (but that may be a jealousy thing since Jayce wanted to hold her), but that lasted all of about 10 seconds and he was ready to give her back!  Lol.   
The "Smile for the Camera"
The REAL reaction

He’ll be great I know, just from afar, whereas Jayce will be the close up helper.  Riley’s always ready to run and grab something for me if I need it: Diapers, burp rag, clothes, even something for Jayce.  He’s my big helper! 

Not much scheduled for the upcoming weeks, Cam has off until at least the New Year, and maybe even the next couple days at short half days – we’ll see!  And we have a few Doctors appointments next week for Amara, all those new baby tests and checkups they do!  The following week Riley starts back to school and G & G Louie come for a visit!  We can’t wait! We’ll do our best to keep you updated with pictures!

Merry Christmas Everyone!



We had a wonderful Christmas this year!  First of all because our entire Family of 5 was able to be home and celebrate!!  Our Best Christmas present, Amara, was came on the 22nd, allowing her and Mommy to be home in time for Christmas Eve!! 

Per Wilson Family tradition, we got to open 1 gift on Christmas Eve.  Riley got some books from Mommy, Jayce opened some new clothes from G & G Louie, and the boys helped Amara open a Puppy toy from G & G Louie.  

Then it was early to bed (normal 8:00 bed time) for everyone so that Santa had plenty of time to stop by and fill the stockings etc.  And ironically, Amara was the first one up . . . at 7:30!!  We were surprised that the boys slept in that long, especially given that they normally wake up before that with an 8:00 bed time!  But after Amara was fed and content it was time to open presents!!  The boys had a blast, and Jayce wanted to play with all the toys instead of unwrapping all the others!  Lol
Race Cars from Santa
Santa brought Amara her first Dolly!
Tag Reading system from Unkie Rodgie & Kathie
LOTS of fun toys from Grandma & Grandpa Louie
Another fun gift from Santa
Everyone got new BabyLegs in their Stocking
Mommy loves her new blanket so much she had to test it out with a Nap!
Family Movie time under the big warm blankey!


Daddy made Biscuits and Gravy for breakfast and they were DELICOUS!!  We spent the rest of the day catching up with friends and family, via visitors, Skype, or by phone, and just relaxing or playing with new toys!  I hope Amara enjoyed her First Christmas!  We are so happy to have her here with us.  Next up – NEW YEARS!!  I’m not sure if we are going to let the boys wake up/stay up for the Midnight Celebration, or just fake it at 10:00 MST when New York drops the ball.  We’ll see how the day goes if anyone is willing to stay up for the later time!  ;)  Hope everyone had a safe and happy holiday!  See you in the New Year!!

Monday, December 17, 2012

Happy Birthday Jayce!

My Little Snuggle-Bug is now 2 years old!!  I can't believe it!  My how time flies.  We just had a quiet birthday at home, just the 4 of us.  It was nice not to have to plan a big party.  Here is some pictures from our evening of cake, ice cream and presents:
Birthday Boy!
Riley got to help blow out the candles
Loving his Strawberry Cake!
Showing us he's "2"
Presents!!!  He got a Drum from Riley...
Color Wonder stuff, a book and stickers from the Sandstrums...
Pull back racing cars from G & G Louie
And a Plasma Car from Mommy and Daddy!!
Mommy and the Birthday Boy!


Also, I promised more pictures of Amara's room.  So here's the mural:
Cherry Blossoms on the south wall
Name above the closet


We have more put together now than when I took these pictures, but I haven't taken any new ones.  There's still some pictures and such I want to get on the walls, so I'll probably wait until then to get more.  But it's all ready for her!  Now we are just waiting.  And let me tell you, I'm getting impatient!!  lol Last Thursday I was still at 2 cm, so the doctor stripped my membranes in order to speed things up a little.  Not sure if it worked, but still no baby as of yet.  I have another appointment tomorrow (Tuesday), my last one before the induction on Saturday.  I'm hoping she'll do another membrane sweep.  I'm still having contractions, mostly in the evenings and through the night, but no progression in them.  Which is typical for me.  I've had to have pitocin to move my contractions into doing something with both Riley and Jayce, so that's nothing out of the ordinary.  I guess I was just hoping that like with Jayce my water would break so that we could get things moving!  At this rate I may just have to count on that induction date! 

The good news: today is Daddy's last day of work for the YEAR!!  There's been some confusion as to how much paternity leave his work will give him, so he saved up 4 vacation days in order to get two fulls weeks off between Christmas and New Years (thankfully that was all that was needed with the already scheduled holidays off).  But with his new boss coming in just a few weeks ago they were able to nail down exactly what he would get . . . the good news: His new boss said "Don't use your vacation days for that - I'll give you a full week off!!"  So yay!!  That means he's taking his vacation days this week in order to use them up and so he gets the rest of the week off, plus the next couple after you figure in the 5 days for paternity leave!  YAY!!!  We are so happy to have Daddy home!  It will be nice to have an extra set of hands around the house for a little while.  And that means I won't have to call him home from work if Amara decides to come sooner rather than later this week! 

One more thing I wanted to talk about this week.  The horrible tragedy that will forever over-shadow Jayce's birthday.  The last thing I wanted when I woke up Friday morning was to hear that 20 children and 6 adults had been shot dead solely because they went to school that morning.  Even worse was the fact that I learned of the devastation only minutes before it was time to drop Riley off at Kindergarten.  I sat struggling for minutes trying to decide what to do.  I knew that Riley wouldn't understand why I had kept him home, and would possibly be mad at me for it (he was "Star of the Week" last week and Friday was the day he got to share pictures and stories all about himself with his classmates), and I knew deep down that he was truly safe there.  The teacher-side of me reasoned that his teacher would do everything in her power (just as all the educators that day did) to keep him safe, but the heart-broken parent in me wanted to just keep him by my side where I could be the one keeping him safe and not have to place that burden on someone else.  I ended up letting go, knowing that if I didn't then I may never be able to.  But it was not easy to watch him walk through the gate that day.  But picking him up made it that much better.  He was full of smiles, without a care in the world, so proud of himself for sharing with his friends.  It took everything I had to hold back tears that day looking into his eyes and knowing that they were the same innocent, unknowing, and non-judgemental eyes that a horrible man had snuffed out only hours before.  Only now, days later, am I able to look at Riley without picturing those children with his face, in his classroom, with his teacher.  I don't know if that's because the news has released pictures and now I can put a face to the innocence of a 6-7 year old instead of using my own son as an example, or just because I'm accepting the fact that it wasn't him.  Either way, my heart still aches for those families, both of the children and the adults who gave their lives protecting the children.  Every teacher I know (and I know a lot of teachers!!) would have done the same thing that day to try and save lives.  I am forever grateful that they did just that, and that more lives weren't lost.  My prayers continue to include them as well as the survivors, because I know that this tragedy will never leave them either.  I have many more opinions on the subject, from the mental health aspect to the politics of gun control, but I won't discuss them here.  I just wanted to record my thoughts from that horrific time so that I will always remember the Day my Youngest Son turned 2 . . . in it's fullest.  It wasn't easy that evening to celebrate given all the tears shed, but I'm glad there is a happy reason for that day, at least in our family.  It will be nice to celebrate life every year on that day, instead of remembering death.